Why Am I Here?

So what’s my purpose? Why did I decide to add blogging to my agenda? I’ve been thinking about it for a year. Maybe two? Quite frankly, for me to think about anything and not act immediately is so extremely out of character, that when it does happen, I feel as if there has to be something to it – some reason or purpose.

We’re a mental health family. The statistic is that 1 in 4 have some kind of mental health diagnosis – well, so far 3 out of our family of 5 do. (I say “so far” because my youngest is just a little too young to diagnose.)

We are an ADHD family. We fight anxiety- all displayed in different ways. At least 2 of us fight depression as well. Better throw self harm in there too.

Mental health awareness, ADHD advocacy, Teen Suicide Awareness – these are some of my soapboxes.

I believe that I have information, thoughts, opinions and actual facts to share.

I knew what to do when we found out one of the kids was a cutter. Does every parent? Suicide is the 2nd highest cause of death for teenagers in Iowa. That is scary – and I believe preventable.

Maybe this blog won’t ever have more than a handful of readers. But maybe I can make a difference.

Polar Vortex continues

Pictures…from the middle of nowhere in Eastern Iowa and of my freshman at college getting ready to hike to class. 😂😂🥶

Polar Vortex

I feel like I’m stuck in some twisted version of Groundhog Day and it’s Christmas break and no one is allowed to leave the house.

I have tons to do. Tons. But everyone is here. No school. No work. Even the post office is closed.

This ADHD mom can’t focus for shit.

Enlightened Parenting

My mother’s version of New Years Eve questioning: “There won’t be alcohol at this party, will there?”

My version: “The party is at one place, right? No one is driving? And you’re staying the night? Good. Now, do you have enough liquor? What about mixers? Alright, have fun!”